Talent- “Talent gets you in the gym, attitude and effort
decides where your seat is.”
This summer we played a league game in which Lexi Daniels
made 5 or 6 threes in the game. After the game, an adult came up to me and
said, “She is just a natural shooter.” I know what the adult meant, but I don’t
think it is really an accurate statement. Sometimes a player can make things look so easy, it is
understandable when people look and think it is just “natural.”
When we say someone is a “natural,” the implication is that
they were born this way. The reality is that in sports and in life very few
people are naturals. They may be born with certain valuable characteristics,
but they work and work to develop that ability.
I believe most successful people get there through hard
work. From my experience, successful people possess five important qualities.
Passion-
“Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.” (Ralph Waldo
Emerson)
To become a great shooter, it requires so many repetitions.
If a player doesn’t have a passion for basketball, it will be work and not be
much fun. In any sport to do the required practice, you must have a love for
the sport. Great artists love painting, great musicians love music. To become
great at anything, you must have a passion for it.


A Corrosive Culture is highly toxic and is characterized by a lot of conflict, negativity, frustration, cliques, gossiping, distrust, and selfishness. It is obviously not one that is fun to be around and the turmoil and tension off the field/court almost surely affects the team on it. From a relationship standpoint, cliques will often develop that divide, distract, and destroy the team. Rather than battling your opponents, your athletes spend more time battling each other and the coaching staff because no one is on the same page working toward the same goal.
The Country Club Culture is one of entitlement, appearances, and leisure. The priority in this culture is to look good and to have a good time rather than to win championships. It is a superficial and soft culture where little accountability is expected from its members so people are allowed to coast. Playing time and leadership positions are often not based on merit but instead on politics, popularity, and brown-nosing. The currency in a Country Club culture of is much more about style than substance. Status in a Country Club Culture is accrued primarily by the kind of gear people wear. Results are clearly secondary and relationships are superficial at best.









