This is a picture of Gun Inn as you get off the bus in Hollingworth. |
When I went to grade school in a different era, one of our lessons had to do with our ancestors country of origin. The teacher would have you find the origin of your ancestors. Then we would do work with fractions, you were 1/4 Irish, 1/2 English, and 1/4 Welch. As we did the work, my ancestors might as well have come to America in 1612 for all I cared- it was a long time ago.
Front of Gun Inn. The blacksmith shop of my great-great grandfather may have been in area of the white building. Wright worked in mill to the left of the Gun Inn. |
As you enter Gun Inn, there is this stained glass window. |
This whole story about names has to do with my family's story of immigration to the United States. By no means did I grow up feeling anything but an average American. But these unusual names are part of my families heritage. My father's grandparents were immigrants to America. My great-grandfather and great-grandmother were born and raised in Hollingworth England.
As you walk in the door, this is what you see. There are two sitting areas ahead, and then to the right one big area, and actually a library area. |
Once you get to Manchester, you can take another train to Stalybridge which takes about ten minutes. Then you catch a bus to Hollingworth. In England they speak English, but for an American, it is a foreign language. When you talk to an Englishman you often find you are either asking, "What?", or you decide it is just best to nod and pretend you know what they said. Because of this, we had trouble finding our bus stop and then once on the bus, we had trouble being sure we knew when and where to get off.
Beautiful stained glass window that separates the bar from a seating area with tables and fireplace. |
When we got off the bus, there it was across the street, the Gun Inn. In fact the bus stop is listed as "The Gun Inn." The significance of the Gun Inn is that is was run by my great-grandmother's family in the 1850's into the 1870's.
It would not be a pub if it didn't have a bar. |
My great-grandmother is Betty Warhurst. Betty Warhurst was the daughter of Joseph and Ann Warhurst. Betty was born in 1828. Records are clearer with Betty because her family was from a family with a little higher social and economic status. Joseph was a blacksmith by occupation. The blacksmith shop was located next to the Gun Inn on the east side of the building. The name comes from a major part of the work was making guns in the blacksmith shop- in particular cannons.
Main area with a fireplace. It is not hard to imagine all the "news" shared in this room in the 1850's. |
My great-great grandfather, Joseph Warhurst owned and ran the Gun Inn along with Betty's brother John from the mid-1850's until the 1870's. When my brother Mark visited the Gun Inn, they had a listing of former brewmasters with Joseph and John listed. On our visit in 2013, new ownership had taken the framed list down.
Wright and Betty married in 1848. They had five children in England. None of the children survived infancy or early childhood. All were buried and left behind in Hollingworth. Wright and Betty made the decision to go to America in 1855. Perhaps it was to escape the sorrow of five lost children, or perhaps it was to get Wright away from Hollngworth and the crowd he hung with. But Wright at 36 and Betty at 27, decided to pick up and leave.
Looking down Spring St. It is only about 1-2 blocks long. Wright Massey lived in small hut with his single mother. |
Wright and Betty had five more children in America. Four of the boys survived to adulthood. The boys were Joseph, Edward, Wright, and Cornelius. My grandfather, Cornelius was born in 1864. Wright died at age 46 in 1866. Wright smoked a pipe and when he fell ill, Betty would light his pipe for him, so he could have a smoke. The story is she grew addicted to the tobacco. So after his death, she often carried a pipe in her skirt.
Betty was 38 years old, had been in America just 11 years, and had 4 boys to raise when her husband died. The following was my great-grandmother's obituary:
Mrs. Massey whose maiden name was Warhurst was born at Hollingworth England
January 30, 1828. She married at the age of 20 to Wright Massey.
Five children were born and buried in England , after which they immigrated to
America in 1855. They lived in Illinois about one year, and a short time
near Mineral Point after which they settled on the homestead near Adamsville
where they spent the remainder of their life. Five children were born to
them in this country, 4 sons and 1 daughter, who died in infancy. In 1866
when the homestead was little more than a wilderness, her husband died leaving
her with 4 little boys to take care of…the oldest 10 years old. For many
years life for her was a struggle with poverty and hardship, but with dauntless
courage she managed to keep the family together until the boys were old enough
to take their share of the burden. In 1878 their home was demolished in a
cyclone and life was hard while building a new one. Hard work and economy
triumphed and she lived to see her sons comfortably settled in homes of their
own and respected farmers. The oldest, Joseph resides in Astor , Iowa
…the youngest Cornelius on the old homestead. Wright on the adjoining farm and
Edward on the farm in Middlebury, formerly owned by James Theobald.
Besides her children and grandchildren one sister and two half brothers are
still living in England . While her life was devoted to her family, she
was ever a kind and thoughtful neighbor…..always ready to lend a helping hand.
Being an immigrant and then being a pioneer in the "west" was not easy. The decision to leave your family, knowing you would probably never see them again could not have been easy. You had to be committed to a dream, and you had to be tough.
I never got to meet my great-grandfather or my great-grandmother. For that matter, I never met my grandfather, Cornelius Massey. There is somewhat of a generational disconnect in my line of the family. My grandfather (Cornelius), my father (Wright Ford), myself, and my son (Allen)- none of us ever met our "Grandpa Masseys."
Perhaps this is what of makes finding out about my ancestors so interesting. My great-grandparents story inspires me. Going back to England this summer, and to Hollingworth was an experience I will never forget. To sit in the pub my great-grandmother's family owned and to walk down Spring Street where my great-grandfather was raised by a single mother brought a sense of connectedness. It was a long trip for me via jet, train, and bus to Hollingworth- but it was a much longer trip for my great-grandparents to America. Today I am so appreciative my parents gave me Wright for a middle name- I am proud of my ancestors.
Betty was 38 years old, had been in America just 11 years, and had 4 boys to raise when her husband died. The following was my great-grandmother's obituary:
The Obituary of Betty Massey 1828
-1900
{ Nee Betty Warhurst}
As taken from the Hollandale Review, October 26, 1900
Once more we must chronicle the death of an old settler, friend and neighbor,
Mrs. Betty Massey, who died after midnight Monday morning October 22, 1900,
after an illness of 9 months with heart disease. For several weeks she
suffered so intensely that death came as a welcome release. Funeral
services were conducted by Rev. Maes at the Middlebury Church on Wednesday and
she was laid to rest beside her husband in the Middlebury Cemetery .
Being an immigrant and then being a pioneer in the "west" was not easy. The decision to leave your family, knowing you would probably never see them again could not have been easy. You had to be committed to a dream, and you had to be tough.
Outside the entrance to the Gun Inn. |
Perhaps this is what of makes finding out about my ancestors so interesting. My great-grandparents story inspires me. Going back to England this summer, and to Hollingworth was an experience I will never forget. To sit in the pub my great-grandmother's family owned and to walk down Spring Street where my great-grandfather was raised by a single mother brought a sense of connectedness. It was a long trip for me via jet, train, and bus to Hollingworth- but it was a much longer trip for my great-grandparents to America. Today I am so appreciative my parents gave me Wright for a middle name- I am proud of my ancestors.
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