Disease of ME by Alan Stein

The following is part of an essay by Alan Stein on his blog. For the entire story go to---
http://blog.strongerteam.com/

There are 3 symptoms of the ‘disease of me’ – each of which severely stagnates a player’s growth and development. Having worked a ton of camps and events this summer, I have seen each of these symptoms from players of every age and every level:

1.    Too cool

2.    Too good

3.    Too shy

Too cool: This symptom is rampant… in fact it is a borderline epidemic. Players are too cool to listen when a coach is talking, too cool to show enthusiasm during drills, too coolto warm-up properly, too cool to get on the floor for a loose ball or take a charge, and too cool let the people around them know that they don’t understand something or need some help.  Players are often more concerned with ‘how they look’ then ‘how they perform.’  To paraphrase Woody Harrelson in White Men Can’t Jump – players that are too cool would ‘rather look good and lose than look bad and win.’ 

Too good: This symptom is tricky… because it is actually an illusion.  The players who think they are too good – actually aren’t! They aren’t anywhere close to being good enough, much less too good!  They are so hypnotized by their ranking, or brainwashed by their entourage, that they won’t admit they have areas of their game that need improvement. They are too good to work on their left, too good to work on their footwork, or too good to work on their mid-range game.  Who needs to be able to do those things when you can dribble between your legs 19 times in a row or dunk the ball with ease? Players that are too good are often shoot 1st, pass 2nd type players.  Actually, they are usually shoot 1st, shoot 2nd, and don’t pass type players. They never bother with making those around them better.  If a teammate can’t hold their own on the court… that is their problem.

Too shy: This symptom is complicated as well.  I don’t know if I would go as far as to say that being too shy is selfish per se; but being shy does stunt improvement.  You have to be assertive if you want to get better! You can’t be too shy to ask questions. You can’t be too shy to reach out and ask for help from your coach.  You can’t be too shy to verbally communicate on offense and defense.  Most kids aren’t shy when it comes to texting, Twitter, and Facebook… but they quickly go into a shell when expected to speak face to face.

If you are trying to be the best player you can be… to maximize your potential and play at the highest level possible… you can’t be too cool, too good, or too shy.  You need to find a cure for the ‘disease of me.’